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Benefits received from this training:

At the conclusion of this training, you will be able to . . .
  • Know the steps that will repair relationships damaged by past conflicts.
  • Transform the negative energy of anger into a positive, productive force.
  • Meet conflict and disagreement head-on and reach a mutual agreement.
  • Predict a problem situation before it reaches the crisis stage and avert it entirely!
  • Understand why people act the way they do.
  • Adapt to the unique styles of others.
  • Communicate an approach that works positive results with all types of personalities.
  • Lower stress at work by getting along well with others.


Additional benefits and objectives can be identified and designed to fit the needs of each client.

Training Curriculum:
  1. Attitude: A Definition.
    1. A. Things that shape attitude.
  2. Behavior: A Definition.
    1. Things that shape behavior (experience, perceptions, length of exposure, beliefs).
  3. The Importance of Self-Esteem.
    1. The poker-chip theory.
    2. Reactive behavior vs. responsive behavior.
    3. Who's in charge here?
  4. Communication Styles.
    1. Passive/Aggressive/Assertive.
    2. Language and behavior of assertive people.
  5. A Deeper Understanding of Your Behavior and the Behavior of Others.
    1. The DISC Mode.
    2. Understanding the 2 graphs.
    3. How to read your graph.
  6. Adapting to the Behavior of Others...the Key to Success.
    1. Understanding that leads to better relationships.
    2. How to recognize and appreciate the behavior of others.
    3. How to adapt for increased communication and understanding.
  7. Dealing With Anger.
    1. Understanding the origin of anger.
      1. Demands on others.
      2. Demands on self.
      3. Demands on circumstances.
  8. Achieving Control Through Self-Talk.
    1. Monitor your thoughts and words.
    2. Practice positive thoughts and words.
    3. Program new constructive responses.
    4. Converting negatives into positives.
  9. Constructive Behavior That Produces Resolution.
    1. Listening attentively.
    2. Acknowledging the other person's position/interest.
    3. Accepting their perspective.
    4. Avoiding accusations.
    5. Stating your position/interests.
    6. Proposing a compromise.
    7. Suggesting further discussion.
    8. Follow up.
    9. Respecting both parties involved.
  10. Identifying "Impossible" People.
    1. 15 characteristics.
    2. 3 Choices.
  11. Preparing for the Confrontation.
    1. Assess the situation.
    2. View the behavior objectively.
    3. Formulate and implement a plan.
    4. Monitor your progress.
    5. Modify the plan when necessary.
  12. Review/questions/discussion/Learning Transfer.
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